The Ultimate Mindset Change Podcast

Self-sabotage due to low deserve levels can ruin and hold back your life.  Learn to the secrets to raising your deserve level to a healthy one so you can create the life you truly want to live. Gary Kadi is on a mission to get a billion people mentally healthier and in this episode, he talks with Paul about healthy deserve levels and how when you learn to change your mindset and be who you truly are,  you can bring joy, abundance, freedom, and peace into your life Healthy deserve levels open you to self-awareness and understanding that you can choose your life, listen in, and hear how you can work on your healthy deserve levels across all aspects of your life   KEY TAKEAWAYS This show contains branded product placement In all aspects of life, you don’t get what you deserve, you get what you think you deserve nothing more and nothing less There are five domains of healthiness -physical, financial, social, mental, and spiritual When you are okay with being who you are the world is better We can become familiar with the discomfort and pain but the healthy deserve program helps you to be self-aware You need to acknowledge the past but live in the present and look towards the future Subconscious benchmarks can mean we only feel we deserve up to until a particular level and we move to self-sabotage anything more There are 3 levels to integrity, making promises to people and keeping them, the promises you make to yourself, living life in line with your values and beliefs Working from a foundation of integrity creates the world around you If you work on your healthy deserve level you will see abundance, joy, freedom, peace, love, abundance, and a new way of living In the first steps, you will feel uncomfortable and the breakthrough is when you feel comfortable being uncomfortable How you show up for yourself and others moment by moment is the only thing in your control   BEST MOMENTS If you are looking for peace, joy, and fulfilment that’s what you will get ‘When you live in secret shame  you will be stressed out’ ‘Integrity is so vital to what you receive in the world’   RESOURCES FOR THIS EPISODE Raise Your Healthy Deserve Level Facebook Group  https://nextlevelpractice.com/book-gary-kadi/   VALUABLE RESOURCES Mindset Change Podcast Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube   NUMIND WELLNESS OFFER - 20% DISCOUNT AVAILABLE WITH THIS CODE  https://numindwellness.com/   use Code:  PAUL20   ABOUT THE HOST Paul Sheppard Paul is well known for his holistic therapy and coaching approach  when working with anxiety, stress, confidence, and motivation, understanding, and treating the root causes and surrounding issues He has a passion for understanding how the mind works and has been trained in many therapies. He is an Integrative Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, IEMT and has also had training in CBT, ACT and Mindfulness His mission is to share with others the strategies, techniques and perspectives that can have the most positive impact on changing anxiety, stress, low confidence, depression, and motivation. Working with your mind to become calmer, focused, motivated, confident, and resilient are skills everyone can develop and Paul offers a realistic, direct, and no-nonsense approach that is about creating the change you want to live the life you deserve   CONTACT METHOD Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube

The future doesn’t exist yet and you are the creator of it with a blank canvas to work on through your powerful imagination Paul takes us through a future meditation that will change your life. When you give your subconscious a detailed visualisation you can move towards it and see the opportunities When you use your imagination to create your ideal future you are showing your subconscious high hope and moving towards embracing the joy and happiness of your ideal future   KEY TAKEAWAYS This show contains branded product placement A future with high hopes brings more positivity to your subconscious thought process Always make your future bigger than your past How you see your future self will result in the thoughts and feelings and behaviours you have in the present You are the creator of your future You have infinite futures in front of you Use your imagination to visualise your ideal future Allow your body to embrace positive emotions and see your future as vibrant   BEST MOMENTS ‘Use a journal to create your future self in detail with your big goals for the future ‘The opportunities arose and I took them ‘Feel the love around you right now’   VALUABLE RESOURCES Mindset Change Podcast Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube   NUMIND WELLNESS OFFER - 20% DISCOUNT AVAILABLE WITH THIS CODE  https://numindwellness.com/   use Code:  PAUL20   ABOUT THE HOST Paul Sheppard Paul is well known for his holistic therapy and coaching approach  when working with anxiety, stress, confidence, and motivation, understanding, and treating the root causes and surrounding issues He has a passion for understanding how the mind works and has been trained in many therapies. He is an Integrative Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, IEMT and has also had training in CBT, ACT and Mindfulness His mission is to share with others the strategies, techniques and perspectives that can have the most positive impact on changing anxiety, stress, low confidence, depression, and motivation. Working with your mind to become calmer, focused, motivated, confident, and resilient are skills everyone can develop and Paul offers a realistic, direct, and no-nonsense approach that is about creating the change you want to live the life you deserve   CONTACT METHOD Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube

In this mindset meditation training, perfect for any time of the day Paul focuses on how you can learn to watch your thoughts with curiosity  Everyone can find 12 minutes and when  you practise different focuses you stimulate and develop your mindset bringing growth and understanding When you’ve worked through this episode with Paul, what will you take from this meditation into your day?   KEY TAKEAWAYS This show contains branded product placement Each out breath is an invitation to relax and let go, let your body find its rhythm Part of mindset training is focus Move your attention to the theatre of your mind, you are an audience member observing your thoughts at play What happens when you just watch your thoughts with curiosity? Think of a time in your life when you were the most compassionate If you took compassion into your day-to-day what would you notice yourself doing differently   BEST MOMENTS ‘When you breathe out you can feel your body letting go’ ‘Allow those memories to rise like bubbles from the bottom of the ocean’ ‘Think of three things you are grateful for in your life’   VALUABLE RESOURCES Mindset Change Podcast Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube   NUMIND WELLNESS OFFER - 20% DISCOUNT AVAILABLE WITH THIS CODE  https://numindwellness.com/   use Code:  PAUL20   ABOUT THE HOST Paul Sheppard Paul is well known for his holistic therapy and coaching approach  when working with anxiety, stress, confidence, and motivation, understanding, and treating the root causes and surrounding issues He has a passion for understanding how the mind works and has been trained in many therapies. He is an Integrative Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, IEMT and has also had training in CBT, ACT and Mindfulness His mission is to share with others the strategies, techniques and perspectives that can have the most positive impact on changing anxiety, stress, low confidence, depression, and motivation. Working with your mind to become calmer, focused, motivated, confident, and resilient are skills everyone can develop and Paul offers a realistic, direct, and no-nonsense approach that is about creating the change you want to live the life you deserve   CONTACT METHOD Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube

Simone Heng is a human connection specialist and talks with Paul about the epidemic of loneliness that is growing across the planet She discusses with Paul about the different types of loneliness and how authentic connection is sought by all humans as part of who we are. In a world of social media, the numbers of lonely people continue to grow and this is a fascinating insight into the ways you can build real relationships that will bring the authentic connection you need   KEY TAKEAWAYS This show contains branded product placement The world is in a loneliness epidemic with people feeling more disconnected than ever before Loneliness affects our mental health but also impacts on life span and immunity When we lose connection we seek others to ease the pain It’s hard for people to say they are lonely because of the shame and stigma associated with it Time on your own for self-connection is a vital aspect of being human We love people how we are loved so how our parents interact with us shapes our relationships Connection is one of the things that when it's authentic it soothes us Authenticity is when your internal beliefs are in alignment with your external behaviours   There are 3 common types of loneliness, intimate loneliness where you don’t have anyone you can be truly vulnerable with, relational loneliness where people feel they lack friends and collective loneliness where you don’t share a common interest with a group A collective connection is a group with a common interest You can have different people fulfilling different roles it isn’t one person being everything   BEST MOMENTS ‘There is a risk to our physical health’  ‘Solitude is different because it’s where we choose to be alone’ ‘People can see when you are hiding in plain sight ‘We need people we can be vulnerable with, in our connections’   RESOURCES FOR THIS EPISODE Secret Pandemic: The Search for Connection in a Lonely World - Simone Heng https://simoneheng.com/ Simone Heng LinkedIn   VALUABLE RESOURCES Mindset Change Podcast Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube   NUMIND WELLNESS OFFER - 20% DISCOUNT AVAILABLE WITH THIS CODE  https://numindwellness.com/   use Code:  PAUL20     ABOUT THE HOST Paul Sheppard Paul is well known for his holistic therapy and coaching approach  when working with anxiety, stress, confidence, and motivation, understanding, and treating the root causes and surrounding issues He has a passion for understanding how the mind works and has been trained in many therapies. He is an Integrative Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, IEMT and has also had training in CBT, ACT and Mindfulness His mission is to share with others the strategies, techniques and perspectives that can have the most positive impact on changing anxiety, stress, low confidence, depression, and motivation. Working with your mind to become calmer, focused, motivated, confident, and resilient are skills everyone can develop and Paul offers a realistic, direct, and no-nonsense approach that is about creating the change you want to live the life you deserve   CONTACT METHOD Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube                            

This is the perfect way to start or end your day and a vital tool in a busy world where there are many demands on our attention Paul takes us through a short mindset training meditation that can help you to focus every day and achieve more   KEY TAKEAWAYS This show contains branded product placement As part of your mindset training, you need to create focus Train your attention and focus on your breath Learning to see your thoughts as just thoughts is an important part of mindset training Go into the theatre of your mind and watch your thoughts come and go What have others done for you that you are grateful for?   BEST MOMENTS ‘Become aware of how still and peaceful your mind can become’ ‘Keep consistent and keep practising and it’s the gift that will keep giving’   VALUABLE RESOURCES Mindset Change Podcast Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube   NUMIND WELLNESS OFFER - 20% DISCOUNT AVAILABLE WITH THIS CODE  https://numindwellness.com/   use Code:  PAUL20   ABOUT THE HOST Paul Sheppard Paul is well known for his holistic therapy and coaching approach  when working with anxiety, stress, confidence, and motivation, understanding, and treating the root causes and surrounding issues He has a passion for understanding how the mind works and has been trained in many therapies. He is an Integrative Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, IEMT and has also had training in CBT, ACT and Mindfulness His mission is to share with others the strategies, techniques and perspectives that can have the most positive impact on changing anxiety, stress, low confidence, depression, and motivation. Working with your mind to become calmer, focused, motivated, confident, and resilient are skills everyone can develop and Paul offers a realistic, direct, and no-nonsense approach that is about creating the change you want to live the life you deserve   CONTACT METHOD Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube

In this episode Paul uses the highly requested music meditations which can trigger relaxation and healing is now available to listen to for you to meditate in your own way to. Sometimes we just need the music to work on something less guided and more personal.   Whilst listening to this powerful piece of music, you can: Observe your thoughts, let them come and go for around 10 - 12 minutes Practise observing negative thoughts, allow and accept them to be there. Practise letting go if tension slowly all the way down from your head to your toes. Lie back, relax and allow your mind to wander whilst your body focuses on healing  Ask yourself a question and just watch your thoughts for a while to see what comes up Put on in the background to help you focus and concentrate whilst working  Paul uses a mix of guided meditations,  music only and just silence to meditate and encourages you to explore doing the same to help you gain more self awareness and mastery.   ABOUT THE HOST Paul Sheppard Paul is well known for his holistic therapy and coaching approach  when working with anxiety, stress, confidence, and motivation, understanding, and treating the root causes and surrounding issuesHe has a passion for understanding how the mind works and has been trained in many therapies. He is an Integrative Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, IEMT and has also had training in CBT, ACT and MindfulnessHis mission is to share with others the strategies, techniques and perspectives that can have the most positive impact on changing anxiety, stress, low confidence, depression, and motivation.Working with your mind to become calmer, focused, motivated, confident, and resilient are skills everyone can develop and Paul offers a realistic, direct, and no-nonsense approach that is about creating the change you want to live the life you deserve  CONTACT METHOD Mindset Coaching and TherapyThe Mindset Coach UK InstagramMindset Change YouTube

With this morning boost meditation, you can get your mindset in the right place to create your day Paul takes us through being in the right place to create your ideal future and how to be open to taking the steps on the path to true health, wealth and happiness. Use this meditation as a boost to start your day on the path to the infinite possibilities     KEY TAKEAWAYS THIS EPISODE INCLUDES PRODUCT PLACEMENT Notice your mind slowing down and helping you to relax and focus What can you tune into to increase your feelings of gratitude Be grateful for everything you have in this present moment In this present moment, you are truly healthy, wealthy and abundant There are infinite opportunities for health, wealth and happiness in front of you Immerse yourself in your ideal future and create new ideas and thoughts    BEST MOMENTS ‘Breathe in and out very softly, letting your body find its rhythm’ ‘Give yourself thanks’ ‘Your future is  a blank canvas waiting for your paintbrush ‘   VALUABLE RESOURCES Mindset Change Podcast Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube   NUMIND WELLNESS OFFER - 20% DISCOUNT AVAILABLE WITH THIS CODE  https://numindwellness.com/   use Code:  PAUL20     ABOUT THE HOST Paul Sheppard Paul is well known for his holistic therapy and coaching approach  when working with anxiety, stress, confidence, and motivation, understanding, and treating the root causes and surrounding issues He has a passion for understanding how the mind works and has been trained in many therapies. He is an Integrative Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, IEMT and has also had training in CBT, ACT and Mindfulness His mission is to share with others the strategies, techniques and perspectives that can have the most positive impact on changing anxiety, stress, low confidence, depression, and motivation. Working with your mind to become calmer, focused, motivated, confident, and resilient are skills everyone can develop and Paul offers a realistic, direct, and no-nonsense approach that is about creating the change you want to live the life you deserve   CONTACT METHOD Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube

In this episode, holistic mindset coach Paul shares a ‘go-to’ meditation that triggers a deep sense of peace and can be the catalyst for transformation and healing What would life be like if you tapped into your peaceful self to experience the peace and quiet more often? How could it make your life different, try this meditation and find out what it’s like to experience who you really are when the noise of life is quiet and your mind is in a place of  sense of peace and stillness   KEY TAKEAWAYS Allow your body to fall into rhythm Use the power of your imagination and take yourself to the most relaxing place you’ve ever been Fully immerse yourself in the memory of being in that place When you bring your attention to the pause you can feel peace and stillness This peace is who you really are when all the noise is removed    BEST MOMENTS ‘I get a sense of who I really am behind all the noise’ ‘Tension can melt away from your body as you breathe out’ ‘Be aware of what makes you feel relaxed in this place’   VALUABLE RESOURCES Mindset Change Podcast Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube   NUMIND WELLNESS OFFER - 20% DISCOUNT AVAILABLE WITH THIS CODE  https://numindwellness.com/   use Code:  PAUL20     ABOUT THE HOST Paul Sheppard Paul is well known for his holistic therapy and coaching approach  when working with anxiety, stress, confidence, and motivation, understanding, and treating the root causes and surrounding issues He has a passion for understanding how the mind works and has been trained in many therapies. He is an Integrative Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, IEMT and has also had training in CBT, ACT and Mindfulness His mission is to share with others the strategies, techniques and perspectives that can have the most positive impact on changing anxiety, stress, low confidence, depression, and motivation. Working with your mind to become calmer, focused, motivated, confident, and resilient are skills everyone can develop and Paul offers a realistic, direct, and no-nonsense approach that is about creating the change you want to live the life you deserve   CONTACT METHOD Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube                                          

Holistic mindset coach Paul looks at what can be holding you back from the life you want and why you are continuing to struggle When your life is filled with struggle it can become what you are familiar with and you can find yourself using it to avoid the unknown. Recognising that you may be creating struggle because it’s something familiar to you can be mind-blowing and Paul explains how to progress forward and change your mindset and behaviours in this powerful episode   KEY TAKEAWAYS Progress can be held back by a lack of honesty You have to notice that you are holding back in an area Having a growth mindset is about recognising we all have room for improvement For decades struggle was my reality and so was very familiar to me Success and happiness can seem very alien Struggling made me very self-aware and created projections of the future that I would then try to avoid Struggle was a known and I used it to avoid the unknown Bringing it into the light creates options that mean you can start to make changes Understanding that you may be creating struggles because that’s what’s familiar to you, can be mind-blowing     BEST MOMENTS ‘With curiosity, I began to explore’ ‘It was like a kink in my hose pipe that needed straightening for the water to flow’ ‘We don’t have to repeat the past just because it's familiar’    RESOURCES FOR THIS EPISODE Raise Your Healthy Deserve Level - Gary Kadi    VALUABLE RESOURCES Mindset Change Podcast Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube   NUMIND WELLNESS OFFER - 20% DISCOUNT AVAILABLE WITH THIS CODE  https://numindwellness.com/   use Code:  PAUL20   ABOUT THE HOST Paul Sheppard Paul is well known for his holistic therapy and coaching approach  when working with anxiety, stress, confidence, and motivation, understanding, and treating the root causes and surrounding issues He has a passion for understanding how the mind works and has been trained in many therapies. He is an Integrative Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, IEMT and has also had training in CBT, ACT and Mindfulness His mission is to share with others the strategies, techniques and perspectives that can have the most positive impact on changing anxiety, stress, low confidence, depression, and motivation. Working with your mind to become calmer, focused, motivated, confident, and resilient are skills everyone can develop and Paul offers a realistic, direct, and no-nonsense approach that is about creating the change you want to live the life you deserve   CONTACT METHOD Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube

This meditation is the perfect way to begin or end your day as Paul takes us through this mini meditation that has the power to change your mindset and bring self-love What you practise becomes stronger and this short but sweet meditation may be exactly the right one for you, your mindset, and your day   KEY TAKEAWAYS Let go of the tightness you are holding on to The ego make fee threatened but what we practise becomes stronger Imagine what your life would be like if you accepted yourself more Make it a regular practice to say you love yourself and don’t let your past conditioning dictate your love for yourself   BEST MOMENTS ‘Focus on the mantra to transform your mindset’ ‘Practice saying it on a deeper more subconscious level’ ‘Never underestimate the power of a mini meditation’   VALUABLE RESOURCES Mindset Change Podcast Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube   NUMIND WELLNESS OFFER - 20% DISCOUNT AVAILABLE WITH THIS CODE  https://numindwellness.com/   use Code:  PAUL20     ABOUT THE HOST Paul Sheppard Paul is well known for his holistic therapy and coaching approach  when working with anxiety, stress, confidence, and motivation, understanding, and treating the root causes and surrounding issues He has a passion for understanding how the mind works and has been trained in many therapies. He is an Integrative Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, IEMT and has also had training in CBT, ACT and Mindfulness His mission is to share with others the strategies, techniques and perspectives that can have the most positive impact on changing anxiety, stress, low confidence, depression, and motivation. Working with your mind to become calmer, focused, motivated, confident, and resilient are skills everyone can develop and Paul offers a realistic, direct, and no-nonsense approach that is about creating the change you want to live the life you deserve   CONTACT METHOD Mindset Coaching and Therapy The Mindset Coach UK Instagram Mindset Change YouTube